I don’t want to speak much on Chester’s suicide with the exception of my thoughts on those condemning his actions.
I’ve seen too much negativity online- everything from outright anger at him to people saying he was inconsiderate of his children and fans.
Before you speak or post, you need to stop and think what else there was that you may or may not know anything about. I’m particularly irritated and hurt by those who knew him, who knew he had issues he was dealing with like being sexually abused/ raped and they STILL chose to publicly condemn him.
Depression is one thing. Add the component of being sexually abused and you’ve got a whole other animal you’re dealing with.
People can’t understand unless they’ve been there- stop being so quick to judge when you have NO IDEA wtf you’re talking about. Try to have some compassion and understanding. I’m not saying suicide is the right way, but don’t be so quick to condemn those who go down that path, especially in a moment of despondency.
With sex abuse, there’s a whole other component that can change the core of your psychological being. I’m not saying God can’t overcome that or heal that- of course He can. But understand that it’s more than depression that’s being dealt with. And even if you have been sexually abused, it affects people differently, depending on a whole slew of factors- exactly what occurred, if the offender was known, if a support system was present, if there were multiple offenders or multiple occurrences…I could probably list 10-12 more items here that would affect how people process it differently. That doesn’t even matter.
Just please treat everyone with respect. Have compassion for both the living and the dead. Help people, don’t hurt them.